Preparing for Marriage
Marriage Preparation is a key first step in building a healthy, Christ-centered marriage that will last a lifetime. Preparing to commit your life to another person for a lifetime is both necessary and effective. PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE at Kingsland consists of training in biblical and practical marriage concepts and individualized couple counseling.
We believe it is important that you participate in premarital training to assist you as you prepare to start your "life in Christ" together.
In order to be married at Kingsland or be married by a Kingsland pastor at another venue, you must complete one of the four options we offer in our Preparing for Marriage Program.
Preparing for Marriage Program Options
Option 1: Altarations Premarital Seminar + two hours individualized couple counseling using Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- Altarations Premarital Seminar: This is a six hour class that is offered four times per year on a Saturday. The class covers the following topics:
- God's design for Marriage
- Issues and Expectations
- Communication
- Conflict Resolution
- Commitment
- Forgiveness
- Fun and Friendship
- Spiritual and Sexual Intimacy
- $90 per couple for Altarations.
- $30 for the Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- $30 for individualized couple counseling to go over the results of your Prepare Enrich test.
- The next Altarations Seminar is scheduled for April 21, 2012.
Option 2: Pre-Marriage Counseling at Kingsland: six hours + two hours couple counseling using Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- Pre-Marriage Counseling: The engaged couple meets with a counselor 3 to 4 times for a total of 6 hours. The sessions will cover the material from the Altarations Premarital Seminar.
- For counseling appointments call Mollie Euhus at (281) 492-0785.
- $90 for six hours of couple counseling.
- $30 for Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- $30 for individual couple counseling to go over Prepare Enrich.
- This option is based on the availability of the pre-marriage counselor.
Option 3: Marriage Mentors + two hours individual couple counseling using Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- Marriage Mentoring: The engaged couple will meet with an older, more experienced couple approximately six times to discuss Altarations curriculum or other pre-marriage material that is approved by Kingsland.
- Kingsland will assign you to a trained mentor couple.
- This option depends upon availability of our marriage mentors.
- To set up mentoring, contact Mollie Euhus at (281) 492-0785.
- $30 for Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- $30 for individualized couple counseling to go over Prepare Enrich test.
Option 4: Take an approved workshop from another church + two hours individual couple counseling using Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- Pre-Approved Premarital Workshop: This option may be more appealing to couples who do not physically live in the Katy area and yet want to be married at Kingsland. This option allows the couple to attend a premarital workshop that is approved by Kingsland. A written document which highlights the topics covered and that is signed by the workshop facilitator must be submitted no later than 45 days prior to the wedding.
- $30 for Prepare Enrich on-line test.
- $30 for individualized couple counseling.
TWOGETHER IN Texas
Kingsland's Preparing for Marriage Program is an approved program of Twogether in Texas. Couples who complete both components of Preparing for Marriage Program will save $60 on their marriage license. Upon completion of the program, you will get a certificate that you can take to your county clerk to save $60 on a marriage license. And you won't have to wait 72 hours to be married. The waiting period is waived for couples who complete the course.
Getting Married at Kingsland
Kingsland is a great place to get married. We have 2 venues to choose from. Our worship center seats 1,150 people and has all the sound and technical capability that may be needed. Our most unique venue is the garden. This is a beautiful outdoor wedding locale that can host about 30 people. The beautiful fountain and lush landscape make for a very intimate setting.
If you are interested in being married on campus at Kingsland you need to be aware of a few things: We place emphasis on the importance of scheduling the wedding as far in advance as possible (though not more than 1 year in advance).
- A couple is eligible to be married at Kingsland when the bride, groom, parents, or guardian is a member of Kingsland; or, if the bride or groom is a former member of Kingsland who no longer lives in the Katy area, i.e., college students.
- We DO NOT schedule weddings or wedding receptions on Sundays, New Year's Day, Easter Weekend, Memorial Day Weekend, Saturdays before and after VBS, Independence Day, Labor Day Weekend, Thanksgiving Weekend, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Years Eve, or during the month of December.
- All couples who desire to be married at Kingsland must complete one of the Preparing for Marriage Options.
- Rental fees include facility rental, KBC wedding coordinator and sound/lights technician. Pastor, music, florist, etc. fees are separate and payable to the individual providing the service.
- Contact Mollie Euhus at (281) 492-0785 to set up a consultation.
Pre-Marriage Covenant
In order to be married at Kingsland or to be married by a Kingsland Pastor at another venue, you must agree to the following commitments in the Pre-Marriage Covenant:
Commitment to Covenant Marriage
According to the Bible, marriage is a covenant agreement between one man, one woman, and God for the duration of life. A covenant is much different than a contract. A contract is by definition based on distrust. It is designed to protect individual parties in the event that one or the other of the parties does not fulfill the original agreement. Marriage is not a contract, but a covenant. A covenant is based on trust. A covenant agreement is made at the beginning of married life based on trust in God and His design for the family found in Genesis Chapter 2. We take this covenant seriously in model and in message at Kingsland.
Commitment to Christ
According to the Bible, marriage should be between a man and a woman who both profess their faith in Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14-18). In order to be married at Kingsland, both of you must have accepted Christ as your personal Lord and Savior.
Commitment to Purity
According to the Bible, sex is God's design for intimacy that is to be shared only in the context of marriage. Christians can practice their commitment to purity by not living together and remaining sexually pure. In order to be married at Kingsland we ask that you remain committed to purity.
For Those Previously Married
For those of you who have been previously, we ask you to make the following additional commitment as you prepare for the challenges that blended families or second marriages bring. We ask that you attend DivorceCare or some kind of equivalent ministry. DivorceCare is a nationwide ministry and is offered here at Kingsland. We believe it is important for you to allow yourself time to heal from your previous marriage and to grow in your personal relationship with God.
STEPS TO TAKE IN GETTING MARRIED AT KINGSLAND
Below are the steps to successfully complete the premarital requirements for getting married at Kingsland or by a pastor from Kingsland:
- Fill out the Wedding Reservation Form and submit it to Mollie Euhus.
- Meet with Doug Valot to discuss the Preparing for Marriage Plan.
- Meet with Mollie Euhus to discuss your wedding date, availability of building, and the pastor who will perform your ceremony.
- Meet with the pastor performing your ceremony to sign your Pre-Marriage Covenant.
- Complete the Preparing for Marriage Program Plan.
- Meet with Doug Valot to go over Prepare Enrich.
- Meet with the pastor performing your ceremony two week before to go over details of ceremony.
- WEDDING DAY!!!